I ended 2013 by undergoing the neck surgery I discussed in my last post. It would be cruel to not tell you how everything turned out.
The collaboration worked. Surgery lasted longer than estimated, but apparently much of that time was spent positioning me so they could get my head immobilized in the proper position to do what they had planned. In that process my top cervical vertebrae snapped back into place, making the eventual surgery easier.
I come out of the recovery room at about 4:00PM, eight hours after I was put under with nerve monitoring wires attached to all my fingers, toes and various other points on my body.
Thanks to the excellent surgeons and the high level or care I received at Valley Hospital, I went hope less than 48 hours after that. The plan was to keep me in the hospital for up to four nights but after just two I progressed so well I was sent home. I have already ditched the narcotic pain medicine for Tylenol.
My head is back on straight, I can turn it and move it up and down and side to side. While the range of motion is still limited, it will improve over time. I’m still not allowed to do anything, and I still have to wear my Miami brace 24/7 for a few more weeks, but a return to normal activity is in sight.
I am extremely grateful for all the support I’ve received from friends near and, in some cases, very far.
I have never been one for new year’s resolutions. I reflect enough the rest of the year and don’t normally feel a need for year-end reflections. But 2013 has been a particularly rough year personally and professionally in ways I cannot talk about now. I’m just glad that it is over.
I start 2014 with a new outlook. I have a sliver of a cadaver’s hip in my neck to remind me that life is fleeting but our usefulness does not end with death if we don’t want it to. I already signed a donor consent form noted on my driver’s license, but I’m redoing my living will to also specify organ donation in any form useful.
I am growing a beard, just to see what it looks like. Its a safe risk, but I need to start small. The bug risks are too scary for now.
I have a new opportunity to grow and develop into the best school librarian I can be, and I’ve certainly learned the value of collaboration. Don’t be surprised to get a call, text, email or tweet from me proposing some joint project.
But most of all I have learned I need to take better care of myself, physically, emotionally and in every other way you can imagine.
I hope your 2014 will be all you want it to be. I will be working hard to make sure mine is.
Oh Deven, what an experience. I had seen Jill’s FB update about your surgery, but not yours… so I finally followed the entire thread. There are no words! How lucky that the damage from the fall was not worse, and that you have had all the experiences detailed in these two posts.
You have my every thought, wish, prayer and intention that you heal well and quickly. May whatever is to come forth in your life this year be so, may new and fruitful, healthy chapters begin.
Wow Devin… sounds very scary… Glad to hear that all ultimately went well. More importantly, thrilled to hear that you are taking the lessons from the experience and reinventing your life! Sounds like a great turning lemons into lemonade story. How exciting! Looking forward to seeing where this all takes you. I’ll be following the next chapter of your life! Thanks for sharing…